2022-03-08
We got into another fight today. I was playing game and missed her messages for 2hours. I had told her I was busy working, which was the truth, until i finished the work and started that game. She was super upset. This is not the first time it happened. I feel like a slave to this phone. She said before that she can't rely on me on the house renovation. Every group chat she replied before I could even look at it. Then it became "you are not interested in this" kind of accusation, or rather, I feel accused of being irresponsive and irresponsible. Similarly, when shopping for funitures, appliances, I go for convenience whereas she will always look for the best deals in town - again, low effort. I'm a simple man, I don't have many preferences for food, clothing, etc. I thought that would make my life easier. That is until she came along and the way she criticizes me made feel inadequate. I need to be the man that she can "rely on", and dress well, say the...